Alabama State University welcomed Kandi Burruss, a multi-talented singer, songwriter, actress, producer and entrepreneur, as the featured speaker for its L.E.A.D. (Leadership, Educational, and Development) Speaker Series on Nov. 21. The event, held in the Vivian Watts DeShields Auditorium in Ralph David Abernathy Hall, brought students together for an inspiring and empowering conversation.
The L.E.A.D. Speaker Series is designed to challenge traditional lecture formats by engaging students through contemporary discussions with notable figures. Burruss, known for her contributions to music, television and business, shared her journey and advice for success.
“Sometimes people aren’t going to believe in you,” Burruss said. “People don’t believe in your beliefs, they don’t see what you see for yourself, but you just got to keep pushing anyway.”
Throughout her talk, Burruss emphasized the importance of persistence and consistency in achieving goals.
“You have to be consistent in what you want to do and continuously work towards your goal. You have to find yourself, network and be consistent,” she advised.
Burruss encouraged students to face rejection with resilience.
“You can’t care about ‘no,’ ‘no’ can’t hurt your feelings. What is a ‘no’? It doesn’t hurt me when someone tells me no. You can’t let that worry you or let it hurt your feelings. It’s alright and it’ll work out, just keep pushing,” she said.
Her motivational message also included a reminder to never give up, even when challenges arise.
“That moment you give up could’ve been the moment you finally pop off,” she said. “I always tell people that fear equals failure. I stress it a lot to my kids, we’re not scared to do nothing! If on the other side of this means I can get to where I want to be, then I’m pushing past that. I’m only fearful for a second.”
Burruss shared her ambitious dream of becoming an EGOT (Emmy, Grammy, Oscar, and Tony) winner.
“My dream is to be an EGOT winner, and I’ve been going hard for it. I’m going to figure out the rules and do what I must until I qualify in every lane. I’ve been nominated for an Emmy, I’ve been nominated for a Tony and eventually, let me speak this into my own life, I will win,” she declared.
Offering practical advice, Burruss revealed a key networking tip.
“Any producer, songwriter, actor, artist, any talent you want to get close to, follow them on social media and become friends with their glam team,” Burruss said. “That’s the secret sauce right there! Build a relationship with them so that they could recommend you to that talent.”
Students in attendance shared their excitement and appreciation for Burruss’ inspiring words.
“I really enjoyed listening to Kandi speak today. I’m an artist, so I came prepared with my notepad ready to take note of everything she said. She was very empowering, and I enjoyed every second,” said Zorah Taylor, a sophomore majoring in history education.
“Having the opportunity to meet, speak, and take a picture with Kandi was awesome! It was such a surreal experience. She spoke with poise and confidence, and she’s very inspiring,” said Ebere Oha, a graduating senior majoring in psychology.
Sophomore biology pre-health major Madison McGuire said, “Whenever you get to see celebrities in person, it’s so cool. Having the chance to hear and see Kandi today was great.”
Aaliyah Thomas, a junior majoring in broadcast journalism, echoed the sentiments.
“I loved Kandi! She seems like such a great person, and everything she said really hit home. I’m sure she gave us all some extra motivation to continue to strive for our dreams,” she said.
For Xavier Dorsey, a senior business major, the connection was personal.
“It was super cool to meet Kandi, we’re from the same city, so you got to love that. It was a great chance for the students here to receive some motivation,” he said.
Chelsey Nichols, a sophomore psychology major, expressed gratitude for an unforgettable evening.
“Kandi did an amazing job tonight. I’m also grateful for the opportunity to attend the reception where I got to stand directly beside her for a picture,” Nichols said.