Welcome back to another Hornets View episode, and today we have a lot to cover this week.  We have a juicy Am I the Stinger, and I can’t wait to bring it to you guys. Let’s get into it.

 Starting off with Fear Factor, they started their Founders Week because they went hard for their Founders Day.  Starting on Monday as they were driving around, honking their horn, and then broke out into flash mob.  It was sadly broken up by the police.

It was very amazing to watch.  And on Tuesday, they had an amazing show outside of the Acadome.  And from what I hear, their parties were just as amazing.

Moving on to next and the most important topic, HoCo Week. It is finally close enough for us to be talking about it, for us to give it some real thought.  And let me know, make sure you guys follow me on Instagram at savin underscore ESS IET.

 And let me know how hard are you coming for HoCo.  On top of that, let me know, are you guys locking in before HoCo?  Statistics show, if you’re not locked in before HoCo, there is a 85% chance your little ya is going to go outside  and do something you do not approve of, and it’s going to have you sick. And that could range from anywhere from on top of cars to in the air with the cues, and how you’re going to be feeling.

But no worries, ladies, you are not safe either, because you know what’s going to happen when your little ya don’t lock in with you before HoCo?  Not only will he be over going, embarrassing the program, embarrassing the team, but he going to be sharking too, adding to his roster. Which leads me to my next question, what is the difference between loyalty and respect in a talking stage?  Let’s talk about it.  Alright, let me set the scene for you, right?  You’re talking to one girl right now, HoCo’s approach, right?  You guys aren’t locked in, HoCo come.

 You guys are still texting every day, you guys been on a date before the HoCo, but you guys aren’t going to the same HoCo parties together, right?  So now you’re by yourself, you’re with your homeboys or your homegirls, right?  A group of gorgeous young ladies or young men walk up to you, you guys are chatting it up, and you know, you’re there like, oh let me get you on Instagram and all that.  You get the dude on Instagram, you get the gal on Instagram, you’re texting them or whatever, on friendly stuff, on some friendly stuff, right?  And you’re texting them or whatever, and it gets a little flirty. Now here’s that line.

 Now loyalty would say you wouldn’t even give them the Instagram in the first place.  That’s loyalty.  But the respect is you shouldn’t continue with that flirting.

 Once you get to continue with that flirting, now you’re, what you’re doing is, what’s the word for, what’s the word for?  You’re violating NCAA rules, that’s what it is. You’re violating NCAA rules, looking to transfer to another team before leaving your current team.  Like, if you’re a part of a program already, or trying to go to a program, because you guys are in the talking stage.

 So you’re trying to go to a program, you’re telling this program they’re wonderful, you’re into them, but at the same time you’re talking to different coaches?  Where’s the respect?  You know, where’s the, hey, I am talking to other people.  Where’s the warning?  So one person’s not putting all their eggs into one basket.  I feel like that’s where the line of respect and loyalty falls.

 Because I feel once you’re, oh, someone asked for your Instagram, you’re like, no, I’m sorry, I’m talking to somebody.  You’re basically dating the person, because now you could be potentially blocking your blessing.  You could be potentially blocking your blessing, because you don’t even know that person like that.

 Because they didn’t ask you to be their loyal yet for a reason.  If they wanted you to be their girlfriend, and they wanted you to be loyal to them, they would have asked you that already.  And I feel like we’re not putting enough emphasis on we need more girlfriends nowadays.

We need more boyfriends.  We need more actual relationships instead of these situationships and talking stages.  Because how can you be loyal if you’re not in a relationship with them?  Once you’re loyal, that’s not your girlfriend.

 So if you’re in a talking stage right now, and you two are overloyal to each other going on dates, that’s a girlfriend or boyfriend. That’s what that is.  But I’m not no relationship guru.

 I can’t tell you what to do and what not to do.  I’m just your local Hornets View podcaster, Savion. So let’s move over to Am I the Stinger? Reading over the Am I the Stinger for today, it really is a juicy one.

 So let me read it off for you guys.  Am I the Stinger for not talking?  So I’m 20 male, and girl I like is 21 female. We went out on two dates, and everything was fine.

But I got busy one day and didn’t text her.  I saw her in the cab, but I decided not to say anything because she was with her friends, and I didn’t want to bother her. Later that night, I went out, and I saw her again with her friends.

 But before I could walk up, I saw her give her phone to a guy and watched him type something into it. I noticed it, but I just kept it pushing.  The next day, she texted me saying, I saw you at the party.

 Why didn’t you say anything?  I told her I saw her busy with another guy.  She said, I just gave him my Instagram, and you were being weird for not talking. After that, I left her on delivered.

 Am I the Stinger?  Well, first off, I want to say you’re the Stinger.  That’s what I’m just going to say off bat.  I think you’re the Stinger.

 I don’t think she’s wrong for giving another guy her Instagram at all. Unless you think that man is a better man than you, then you shouldn’t be threatened by that at all. You don’t know what he was asking.

She could be making a connection.  Even on top of that, you not saying hi to her in the caf because she was with her friends.  We’re not in high school anymore, man.

You really just got to step up or at least send a text while you’re in the caf.  There’s no reason why you shouldn’t have texted her while you’re in the caf.  Something cute like, oh, I see you, or did you see me?  So you guys can go and talk.

 The day you got busy and you didn’t text her, maybe you could have texted her the next day.  Sorry, I was busy that day. But no, I think it’s just utterly kind of crazy you didn’t talk to her the whole party.

Did you at least go shart?  Did you go talk to anybody else? Because no way the whole party you was butthurt that she gave another dude her Instagram  and you was just kind of like sitting in sorrow.  You know what I’m saying? That’s what I’m going to say on it.  But let me know what you guys think.

 If you want to submit a story to me, follow me on Instagram at savion underscore ESS IET.  And you’re able to send me stories and I will tell them on the podcast completely anonymous and scotch free.  Make sure you guys tune in on the next episode on Hornets View.

 Thank you for listening.